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The Power of Pause: Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish By: Simone O Higginbotham

Writer: Simone IncSimone Inc




In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, many of us fall into the trap of thinking that

constant productivity equals success. The more we do, the more valuable we feel. But

here’s the truth: burning the candle at both ends isn’t sustainable, and neglecting

yourself isn’t a badge of honor—it’s a recipe for burnout.


Why Self-Care Matters

Taking a moment to pause and care for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Think of

self-care as recharging your batteries. You wouldn’t expect your phone to run on 1% all

day, so why expect that of yourself?

When we take the time to care for our minds, bodies, and spirits, we’re not just nurturing

ourselves; we’re setting the stage to show up better for the people and responsibilities

that matter most. Whether it’s through meditation, a long bath, journaling, or simply

sitting in silence, self-care empowers us to:


1. Refocus: Stepping back from the chaos allows us to see things more clearly.

2. Replenish: Self-care replenishes the emotional and physical reserves we need

to thrive.

3. Reconnect: It helps us reconnect with who we are outside of the roles we play.


Why It’s Not Selfish

Society often labels self-care as indulgent or unnecessary, especially for women

juggling family, work, and other responsibilities. But the reality is that caring for yourself

enhances your ability to care for others. Think of it this way: you can’t pour from an

empty cup.

By prioritizing your well-being, you’re modeling healthy behavior, setting boundaries,

and showing those around you the importance of balance. It’s an act of love—not just

for yourself, but for everyone who depends on you.


Take Action at Blossom & Brunch

Ready to embrace the power of pause? Join us at the Blossom & Brunch: A

Gathering of Weekend Girls on March 15, 2025 from 10:00 AM - Until. This special

event is designed to empower women to indulge in self-care, connect with a supportive

community, and blossom into their best selves.


Enjoy activities like self-care stations, vision boarding, yoga on the lawn, and much

more—all while savoring delicious food and uplifting vibes.

Let’s come together to celebrate our strength, grace, and the beauty of pausing for self-

care. We can’t wait to see you there!

 
 

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